Family court lawyer in Gold Coast

In recent times, family lawyers and courts in general seem to continuously be accepting the role of parenting coordinators as key in resolving certain disputes regarding parental decisions. This coordinator is a third party individual who is independent and or neutral of the two parties and comes in to help couples resolve disputes regarding parental duties as well as implement parenting plans stipulated by the court. A parenting coordinator must be someone with proficient expertise and high quality training and qualifications in this field and with a perspective that is acceptable by the court. In this way, the court is in a position to choose the desired parenting coordinator.

There may be severe cases where divorced parents don’t communicate with each other. This is where the court and gold coast lawyers would recommend a parenting coordinator to come in and serve as a middle person in facilitating communication and eventually make decisions regarding the welfare of the kids. Parenting coordinators are usually unbiased individuals representing the direct needs and welfare of the child.

If you are one of those parents working with parenting coordinators, here is some advice for you:

  1. Make sure you have complete knowledge of who your parenting coordinator is. Enquire fully about their credentials and talk to other parents who have used one before in order to get details of their strengths and weaknesses. Shop around and ask for help from your lawyers on how the process works and you can click here to find out how to get the process started.
  2. Always be real and transparent with your coordinator. These are highly trained individuals and just like judges, they’ll eventually catch up with your trickery and manipulation if you try some.
  3. Keep your mind focused on children and not your ex wife or husband. Parenting coordinators are different from relationship counselors; they are not going to help with feelings about your ex, they want to know what you think about the best interests of the child.
  4. Why should a parenting coordinator meet your child? Only a GAL (guardian ad litem), whose role is to determine the custody of a child and not a parenting coordinator, whose role is to help in resolving parental disputes, can be allowed to meet a child. If a coordinator asks to meet a child, involve your gold coast family lawyer and ask for denial of the request. This is not the time for your child to meet up with some stranger when there is already a very ugly situation at hand.
  5. Keep in touch with your lawyers and keep them informed of anything arising from your coordinator. Let them act as an intermediary between you and the coordinator and speak to them frankly than you would have done in your position as someone receiving instructions from the parenting coordinator.
  6. Be warned that once a decision is made by the parenting coordinator, it is very unlikely to be overturned.
  7. You can always change parenting coordinators if you feel uncomfortable with the current one. However, for this to happen, you’ll have to involve your lawyers and take the matter to court.